As adults the holidays can seem like a mess! All those good times you remember as a child seem way out of reach. There’s a hope for the holidays to be filled with happiness, friends, and loved ones. In reality, for most of us the holidays are defined by extremes. We have long to-do lists, but not enough time. We desire to get some rest in our own home, yet feel the pressure to travel far away to see family or friends. During these challenging economic times we feel the pressure of gift-giving, but the lack of money to be as generous as our heart desires. We want to enjoy all the festive food, but don’t want to pay the price when we step on the scale!
If you are not gentle with yourself, all these conflicting emotions and desires will create a predisposition of sadness, inadequacy, loneliness, or isolation. To make the best of the holidays, you can incorporate the following suggestions and get back to enjoying the holidays and having some much-deserved rest, relaxation, connection, and fun! Here are some helpful hints to reclaim the holiday spirit and keep things in proper perspective.
- Meditate
- Exercise
- Laugh
- Delegate
- Be clear
- Be flexible
- Do something YOU enjoy